"Side Chick"....... aka the other woman, mistress....female who is neither the man's wife, girlfriend or significant other who is having relations with the man while he is in a relationship. Just from the definition alone, it seems the side chick has already lost. But there are definitely some females who believe that side chicks are winning and are more prominent in a man's life than even his wife or girlfriend. Yeah.....these chicks have some major balls now! My question is....what is it about this man that makes you feel that you would be content with second place just because you are so desperate for a man. Are self-esteem levels so low that you think having a piece of a man is better than having no man at all? These are things that I question when it comes to side chicks. And believe me.....I know a few. They make the side chick life seem so glamorous yet they always seem to be depressed and broken. That is.....until their "lover" finds a few minutes on lunch to spend with them, to buy them a meal and make plans on when they can hook up for sex. Are side chicks really winning???Now don't get me wrong....there are some side chicks that are profiting big with gifts and trips.....but please believe.....if you are an "average" side chick messing with an "average" man......you not getting much. Yeah, you may think that necklace is a nice gift and he is showing that he cares, but trust and believe.....that main chick just got something that will put your little chain to shame. And while you bragging about the lovely evening you had out on the town, he is planning a trip to Hawaii with his main. Are side chicks really winning???
I also have to question..... what happens when the side chick starts to catch feelings. Its inevitable. Unless this is what you do for a living. Do you screen shot text and send them to the main? Do you send suggestive anonymous emails to alert your lovers main chick to his little indiscretions. Or do you walk away with the little self esteem and pride you have left and begin to make yourself a PRIORITY instead of an OPTION. But then again....look on the bright side. Side chicks sometimes (but not often) are able to win the heart and love of their part time lover and even marry them (as we saw on Love & Hip Hop).... but that was a total train wreck because even as the now so called "wife" ..... she was still in the shadows as the side chick. I really felt bad for her..........NOT!!!! LMAO!!!! Oh well.....If all else fails.....get a tattoo so you know its real!!!! Sorry.......Side Chicks are NOT winning!!!!
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I've come to learn that most side chicks date taken me because they don't want the responsibilities the main one has. They don't have to see him daily and they get what they can get when they can get it. I've had several friends say they like that role
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