You look at the calendar and notice it’s your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend’s
birthday coming up. Being that they are your EX and you have moved on and
currently in a new relationship….. Should their birthday even matter? After all
they are an “EX” for a reason. Instead
you make the conscience choice to send them a gift for their birthday. Would this be a wise decision especially when
you are currently in a relationship with someone else?
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Shhhhh!! Dont tell my girlfriend! |
Now don’t get
me wrong. I’m cordial with most all my ex-boyfriends. I have no problem sending a “Happy Birthday”
shout -out on Facebook and be amongst the other numerous greetings floating on
their page. That’s just me. But I’m not
going out my way to send you a gift, money, card, etc….. Especially if I’m in a relationship with
someone else. That’s just downright disrespectful. (Once again….my opinion)
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Woman just finding out her boyfriend sent his ex money for her birthday |
So being that this situation was brought to me….. I
asked someone I am currently dating if they thought it was ok to send their ex
a gift for their birthday when they are currently in another relationship…..They
responded “Yes!” I was beyond shocked. So apparently there are a lot of people
in relationships who are still gifting their exes!!! Am I the only one who
thinks that this is a problem and it’s NOT ok!!! And to top it off my friend
continued to say that “as long as the person you with don’t know then it shouldn’t
be an issue”. ***Head in hands*** Really
dude!! REALLY!!!!! So not only are you saying it’s okay to be disrespectful,
you can throw a little deceit in there as well! I swear I need to better screen people I get
involved with! LOL!!!!
So talk to me……what do you think?? If you in a
relationship….should you be sending your ex money, gifts, etc. for their
birthday??????...